Prince Harry has disclosed Prince William’s blunt three-word response to his plea for peace between them: “You left, Harold.” This remark was made during a conversation between the brothers, as recounted by Harry in his memoir “Spare.” Harry shared that his response to William’s words was one of disbelief, as he had expected understanding and sympathy rather than dismissal.
In the book, Harry explains that when William said, “You left,” Harry replied, “Yeah – and you know why.” William responded, “I don’t.” This exchange left Harry feeling deeply frustrated and disheartened, revealing the strained relationship and lack of mutual understanding between the brothers.
Harry further reflected on how his idea of “home” had become complicated. Gesturing towards their surroundings, he reminded William of their shared plans to live there for the rest of their lives. The ongoing rift between them remains unresolved since Harry and Meghan Markle’s departure from their senior royal duties in 2020 and their subsequent public statements, including a high-profile interview with Oprah Winfrey in 2021 and a Netflix docuseries in 2022.
The memoir details Harry’s disappointment with the lack of empathy from his family, including his father, King Charles. When Harry turned to Charles for support, the King’s expression suggested a similar lack of understanding. This has led Harry to believe that his family might never have truly known him or understood his reasons for leaving royal life behind.
According to royal writer Tom Quinn, Harry’s repeated public complaints about his treatment by the royal family have primarily aimed at securing an apology and reconciliation. However, Quinn suggests that Harry’s approach of airing grievances publicly may have only deepened the divide, as private complaints might have been more effective in fostering healing and mending family ties.